That seems to be the suggestion of the legislative movement that seem determined to try to make the process of obtaining a divorce as difficult as possible. They seem to have concluded that couples spontaneously decide to "get a divorce" because their state has no-fault divorce laws.
Divorce is often pointed to as damaging to American families, because it is presumed to have a negative impact on children and their development. Divorce is often stressful and more so when the parents become combative and litigious, and children can be very sensitive to that conflict. The conflict, however, often long predates the divorce and percolates as the marriage deteriorates.